Chasing What Matters or What Doesn’t

Ever feel like you're sprinting hard… but on a treadmill, and going nowhere?  Pause. Let's check.

1️⃣ What's your real goal?

A swanky penthouse?  A shiny car that turns heads?  A bank account bursting at the seams?  Or is it freedom to sip coffee leisurely, or chase a passion without a clock ticking?

2️⃣ Who do you admire, and why?  

The ones with yachts, jets, designer bags?  Or those with calm confidence, glowing health, quiet joy?  What’s the real prize you’re chasing?

3️⃣ Ever reached a goal… and felt empty?

That "I made it" moment that faded by morning?  Maybe the chase isn't the problem.  It’s the path you’ve chosen.

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4️⃣ When did you last feel truly content?  

A loud win, a promotion, a celebration?  Or was it a quiet moment - a shared laugh, a sunset walk, a feeling that slipped in softly?

✅ The body keeps score

How easily do you fall asleep?  Do worries wake you at 3 a.m.?  Do you hoard your time, or share it freely?  Your body knows the truth. 

♉ One small fix

Are you running a race someone else set for you, or chasing goals handed down by others?  Name one thing you truly value.  A moment of peace.  An act of kindness.  A feeling that's yours.   That's your starting line.

The takeaway?

Close your eyes.  Picture a moment that made you feel whole.  Hold it.  That’s your compass.  Check - Is it pointing to your destination or someone else’s?

Life isn’t about speed. It’s about direction.  Before you climb any higher, ask: "Is my ladder on the right wall?" 

Excellence Whispers, Mediocrity Screams

In Part 1, we saw how mediocrity often becomes the default.  Let’s now ask why excellence, despite its brilliance, struggles to find its voice.

Excellence is usually wrapped in lofty talk, but a story from a wildlife sanctuary in Kerala brings it down to earth.  A sculptor carved an elephant so lifelike that a wild herd attacked it, mistaking it for a rival.  Undeterred, he sculpted another, less literal, more graceful.  This time, a she-elephant stood guard, refusing to leave.  Apocryphal or not, it’s a quiet reminder, how true excellence gets recognized, even by the most unbiased judges.

Now picture a chic café charging ₹300 for a cortado.  We walked out and into a nearby Udupi joint for a ₹50 filter coffee.  That choice shows something crucial.  Sometimes, excellence wins over the louder, trendier, flashier mediocrity.  What’s often missed is the dying art of the filter coffee master, carrying forward a century of perfected craft.

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These stories underline a pattern.  Excellence isn’t defeated; it’s drowned out.  In today’s “hustle over harmony” culture, speed and hype get rewarded over depth and substance.  A “good enough” idea shouted through viral posts grabs attention faster than a quiet masterpiece.  Think of Instagram-perfect products eclipsing traditional gems simply because they dominate our senses everywhere.

Mediocrity makes excellence look “too much.”  But the real barrier isn’t talent; it’s silence.  Greatness, if hidden, never reaches its audience.  The sculptor’s elephants were known only because they were seen.

So don’t let self-doubt mute your work.  Silent excellence is invisible excellence.  Share your spark, your voice, your craft.  It doesn’t need to be flawless.  It just needs to be heard.

In Part 3, we’ll look at how to break free from mediocrity’s grip and make excellence rise above the noise.

The Whisper of Hidden Talent - Why Mediocrity (1) Wins?

Look around.  Fame, praise, recognition... everywhere.  People earn celebrity status in fields you know and care about.  And somewhere inside you, a quiet voice asks: "If they could, why not me?"  Another voice, stronger, whispers: "I could've done it better."

This isn't jealousy.  It's that flicker you feel when you watch a movie, hear a speech, read a blog, or sit through a meeting.  You're not bitter or critical.  You just see things clearer, deeper, maybe even better.

So, what is this feeling?  What if it isn't envy, but the echo of your own hidden brilliance?  What if the ache isn't a flaw, but a signal that your potential isn't absent, just unheard?

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We live in a time where loudness wins over skill, where polish outshines substance, where hustle drowns harmony.  Has success been redefined, not by excellence, but by marketable mediocrity driven by relentless self-promotion and social media savvy?

Behind every "I could do better" lies a deeper truth.  Has fear of public failure turned talent into a spectator sport?  We've been conditioned to believe we need credentials, followers, or someone else's nod before our voice counts.

This series is a quiet rebellion - a search for what’s lost when creators stay silent, for ideas never shared, for voices that stayed unheard, yet held something powerful to say.

We'll explore the cost of this disconnect and the stories of those who bloomed late, proving that your best work doesn't expire with age.  It's never too early to begin and never too late to be seen. 

This is for anyone who has looked at something wildly popular and thought - I have something better inside me.

Let’s find it.  Let’s set it free.

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Why We Break Rules and What It Costs Us

We’ve all done it.  As kids, sneaking a sweet before dinner - harmless mischief, our first taste of the forbidden fruit.  That quiet little thrill of getting away with it?  It lingers.

The Lure of Disobedience

Fast-forward to adulthood: it’s midnight at a traffic light, whether in New York or New Delhi.  No cars, no cops, no witnesses.  You pause, then drive through.  The logic?  “I’m not hurting anyone.”

This is where rule-breaking begins, not with rebellion, but convenience.  Psychologists, like Dan Ariely, call it a low-risk violation.  We bend rules when three conditions align:

• The reward feels worth it.
• The risk of getting caught is low.
• No immediate harm is evident.

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The catch? That justification: “I’m not hurting anyone” - a moral shortcut.  Each small act, like jumping a red signal, pirating a movie, or fudging a tax detail, nudges our inner compass.

The Dangerous Shift

Here’s the risk: our internal question shifts.  Instead of “Is this right?” we ask: “Will I get caught?”

One skipped signal becomes routine.  One pirated movie becomes a habit.  “Everyone does it,” we tell ourselves. Slowly, our conscience stops weighing ethics and starts calculating odds.

This isn’t about guilt.  It’s about self-awareness.  Small choices stack up, shaping who we become.  The person who cuts corners on the road might soon cut them at work.  The one who justifies small deceptions may wrestle with bigger ones.

The slope is slippery not because one broken rule ruins us, but because repeated convenience recalibrates our moral compass.

The Real Question

Next time you’re tempted to bend a rule, pause.  Don’t just check if the coast is clear.  Ask if your conscience is.  Character isn’t what you do when eyes are on you; it’s what you do when no one’s watching.