Purpose Isn't A Prerequisite

Do you need a purpose in life?
We're told to find one first. 
As if life requires a headline to unfold.
But life doesn't wait.

The search for purpose often becomes the delay itself. 
It demands clarity before action.  Certainty before movement.
So you wait.  What if the wait never ends?

Purpose, made too grand, paralyzes more than it propels. 
It turns life into a hunt for one defining goal. 
Everything else, apparently, needs a reason to exist.

Life doesn't arrive as a grand plan. 
It arrives as moments.
A cup of tea, steam rising. 
A quiet conversation that lingers. 
A meal eaten slowly, without distraction.
Small.  Unheroic.  Enough.
It's not about discovering the perfect "why." 
It's about living the "how."

A child laughs without a reason. 
A river flows without knowing the sea. 
Neither waits to become something.

Purpose isn't a prerequisite. 
It's a byproduct.
It may emerge while you're living.  Or it may not. 
Either way, life goes on.

I'd rather be a wave than an arrow.
Not fixed on a target. 
Just moving, rising, falling, and rising again.

Would you rather aim…  or live?

I explore these quiet shifts on Instagram. 
Catch meπŸ‘‰ @myteega

If you enjoyed reading this, share your thoughts.
And click here to support me in this journey.

Circling Without Landing: Boredom’s Stillness

He sat, eyes fixed on nothing.
“I’m bored,” he mumbled.
Not sick.  Not broken. 
Just stalled.

It isn’t laziness.
It’s a freeze that doesn’t crack.
You’re awake, but not alive.
Body here.  Mind elsewhere.

Boredom:
A smoke alarm with no fire.  
Lethargy:
Cells demanding better terms.

Boredom suspends you.
Like a computer in sleep mode—
not off, not running, just waiting.

This isn’t failure.
It’s rhythm.
Feel the strange peace—
the permission to be unfinished.
Life repairs in stillness.

The plane circles.
No climb.  No drop.  Just the hum.
Let it circle.
It will land when the fog clears.

What if circling is part of your journey?

I explore these quiet shifts on Instagram. 
Catch meπŸ‘‰ @myteega

Click for ⏩    πŸ‘‰ Podcasts  πŸ‘‰ Videos 

If you enjoyed reading this, share your thoughts.
And click here to support me in this journey.

Break Fences. Find Joy

Ever found joy that asks for nothing?
Joy that doesn't check the clock,
or rehearse before speaking,
or ask how much to laugh.
It arrives whole, unguarded, unapologetic.

Somewhere along, we began to portion joy.
Trimmed our laughter.
Left the dance floor before the music stopped.
Spoke almost what we meant, 
but never the full truth.

Caution built fences.
Fear made them taller.
We called it maturity.
And mistook it for dignity.

The real danger was never excess.
It was the slow suffocation of inner feelings:
Delayed delight.
Strangled impulses.
Life lived in spoons.
Gay Abandonment defies all these.
(Here it means full of joy, carefree.  Nothing to do with sexual orientation.)

It chooses fullness. Freedom.
Why seek permission when the sky is all yours?

Recently I watched a fifty-two-year-old woman dance.
The song she chose was her age.
She wasn't performing.
Not competing for approval.
Simply living it — fully, visibly, without apology.
A classic experience of gay abandonment.

Not described. Not explained. Just demonstrated.
When did you last live it?

I explore these quiet shifts on Instagram. 
Catch meπŸ‘‰ @myteega

Click for ⏩    πŸ‘‰ Podcasts  πŸ‘‰ Videos 

If you enjoyed reading this, share your thoughts.
And click here to support me in this journey.

Purpose Isn't A Prerequisite

Do you need a purpose in life? We're told to find one first.  As if life requires a headline to unfold. But life doesn't wait. The s...