Pillow Talk: “ZZZ” or “Help Me!”?

“Stop snoring, or we’ll shift you,” warned the hospital administrator.

Mortified, my cousin said, “My wife never complained.”  His roommate however did.

Snoring is the world’s most popular midnight concert.  Even dogs and pigs join in.

It happens when airflow is blocked, and soft throat tissue vibrates like a loose sail in the wind.  A stuffy nose, extra weight, or age often sets the stage.

Most call snoring annoying.  Wrong.

Snoring steals your sleep, your partner's peace, and sometimes signals sleep apnea, where you stop breathing repeatedly.

Quick fixes?

Sleep on your side, strengthen throat muscles, try nasal strips.

Snoring could be a warning. 

Listen to it. Consult a doctor.

Your heart and your better half will thank you.

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Know Who You're Bowing To

"Touch my feet if you must.  Just don't pull my legs."  The company chairman once quipped.

That line stayed with me.

Should greetings be exaggerated?  Should they go beyond a simple and genuine "hello", "namaste" or handshake?

Does over-gesturing happen because of social expectations, community pressure, orfear of seeming disrespectful?

Traditionally, clarity had three levels:

⭕ Respect parents, elders, teachers.

"I value your age, experience, guidance."

⭕ Revere those who inspire awe.

"I bow to your inner light and wisdom."

⭕ Worship only for the Divine.

"You are everything. I am nothing without You."

Today these lines are blurred.

⭕ Respect has turned into performance. 

⭕ Self-styled godmen are treated like real gods.

⭕ Public worship, feels like compulsion, not choice.

Why can't we be genuine? 

Keep our gestures true.  Right gesture to the right one.

That's how bridges are built between heart and hand, between people, between what we feel and what we show.

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Murphy's Law: My Wake-Up Call

"Anything that can go wrong, will." 

Whenever things went wrong, I quoted Murphy.  Then one day, it quoted me back. Was I obsessed?

It was a chilly morning. I had a critical appointment with a city doctor.

I got in the car, turned the key. Engine dead.

Too early to call a mechanic.

I did the next best thing: hailed an auto-rickshaw to the station, caught a train, and reached the clinic on time. Relief!

The receptionist killed it: "Sorry. Doctor isn't coming today."

I felt dejected. Angry. Then the irony hit me.

One simple phone call to confirm the two-day old appointment would've saved everything.

So, are you letting Murphy's Law predict your failures or using it to prevent them?

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Why Do Things Go Wrong?

I remember those days of suburban train rides to the office. I would stand on Platform 4. Just one minute before arrival, comes the announcement: "Train is arriving on Platform 1." A frantic scramble up the footbridge begins. Miss that train and your whole day goes for a toss. Reach office late, and the boss would greet you with the same old line: “If something can go wrong, they will.”
Back then, not a single day passed without someone quoting Murphy, sometimes in the right way, sometimes not. But who was Murphy, and how did he end up being blamed for every little mishap?

Captain Edward A Murphy was no doomsayer. He was an engineer. In 1949, at Edwards Air Force Base, a technician miswired a sensor during an important test. Murphy reacted: “If there are two or more ways to do something, someone will choose the wrong way.”

His words were not about bad luck, but good design. Failure does not just happen by chance. It comes from unchecked assumptions. Assumptions left unchecked are not oversights. They are guarantees of failure.

Over time, this idea turned into the famous line we all know: “Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.”

We however misread his call for precision as an excuse for chaos. Murphy wasn't behind the train’s last-minute platform switch. He was the ghost in the control room, wishing for a smarter system. It was a warning. But we turned it into a joke.

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Patience (2): The Art of Sticking Around

My impatience shows up most in the kitchen.  I rush ingredients in too quickly or forget some entirely.  Sometimes I leave milk on the stove for tea and then wander off to check email.  Hiss!  Bubble!  Spill!  Another mess to clean.  Another lesson learned: impatience isn’t just bad waiting, it’s also walking away too soon.

We live in a world of micro-waits, and each tiny delay irritates us.  But nature works differently.  Seeds grow slowly underground.  Birds find food when they need it.  Milk boils only when it is forgotten.

These small frustrations train us to crave instant results.  Yet anything worthwhile, like losing weight, learning a skill or building a habit, needs time and patience.

Impatience shrinks our view.  We make hasty choices, skip essential steps and overlook details. BWe become reactive and scattered.

Building patience begins with awareness.  Remember, good things take time.  Turn waiting into a chance to watch, listen and learn.

So how do we stay by the stove?  Notice the urge to walk away.  Stay with what is “boiling”, even when the process feels slow.

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Patience Takes Time to Land (1)

I was a schoolkid when we moved into a new house.

One day, an elderly visitor remarked, “You have a home now.  But when you cut that tree, the birds lost theirs.”

Those words moved with my mother. She made a small feeder using an old drum lid; then placed some seeds and a bowl of water and hung it behind our kitchen window.

Days passed.  No birds came.  People laughed.  Some teased her.  But she kept refilling the tray.

Then one morning, a bird appeared.  Soon, more followed.

Smiling, she said, “Patience is like these birds. It takes time to show up.”

That memory mirrors my blogging journey.  Every week, I research, write, and publish.  I invest time, thought, and heart.  Page views slowly rise.  But comments? Engagement? Almost none.  Friends reassure me. “Be patient. The audience will respond.”

Some days, doubt creeps in.  I wonder if this dream will ever take flight.  Then I remember my mother’s lesson.

Patience is a wait-and-watch game.  You keep tending.  You don’t quit.

This post is about the quiet ‘what’ of patience and 'why' it matters.  Next week, I’ll share the 'how'— how to stay consistent even when nothing seems to happen.

Patience demands perseverance.  And its rewards, when they arrive, are worth the wait.

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Curiosity: Why Asking “Why” Makes Life Better

Have you ever watched a cat?  Peeking into boxes, chasing butterflies, playing with shadows?  That restless wonder is curiosity in action.  It’s the same spark that made you ask endless “why’s” as a child.

Why does the sky turn pink at sunset?  Why do birds sing at dawn?  That instinct never left you.  It just got quieter beneath the weight of routine, waiting to be rekindled.

Curiosity doesn’t need big books or clever tools.  Ever notice the tiny holes in biscuits?  They let steam escape while baking, keeping them crisp.  One simple “why” reveals a hidden design.

Or that fresh, earthy scent after rain?  It’s called petrichor, the fragrance released when raindrops disturb soil bacteria.  Nature whispers these stories to those who pause and listen.

Curiosity does more than enrich our world.  It deepens our connections.  When a friend seems quiet, asking “Why, what happened?” can open a door to understanding.   A moment of genuine care can strengthen bonds.

Curious people see problems as puzzles, not burdens.  They worry less, notice more, and find beauty in the ordinary.

As Einstein said, “Never lose a holy curiosity.”  It keeps the heart open and life rich.

Let curiosity guide you gently.  Look closer.  Ask why. The world is ready to surprise you.  Share your thoughts below.